Why Guys Keep Trying to Change Lesbians?

Do Guys Claim They Can Change You?

This topic really jumped out at me, its something really near and dear to my heart and I would like to share it with you all. Why do guys keep trying to change lesbians? Why do they keep using innuendos full of passionate promises to turn them out? I’ve heard a lot of comments from fems (lesbians who are more girly in nature) about how they’re tired of men coming at them that way trying to change something that is their choice. As a man I feel I have to apologize to any lesbians who might be reading this. You shouldn’t be made to feel like there is something wrong with you or like you’re confused when your not. Mostly you shouldn’t have to be pressured all the time. You’re not the problem, its us!

See, this may not make any sense to you and you might not even care but with men we use sex as an excuse to mask how we really feel and most times we dont even realize it ourselves. When men pressure you and offer to change you only 45-50% of that is about pleasure but the other 50% comes from a internal need to be needed. Needed not so much in a sexual way, see as men we feel like we’re supposed to have this bond with women…like we’re supposed to fit somewhere in your life, lol if not sometimes be your total life which is stupid but from the moment we come out the womb everything we do is so mom ( a woman) will notice us, pay attention to us.

From that point on we tend to make more relationships with females. If you look at it little boys are more apt to cling to and respond to female teachers at early ages because there is that need to please, to be accepted and feel like we fit into your lives. Your brother if you have probably had a need to be like your guardian or your protector when you were young, he felt like he had purpose in your life and it made him feel like a man. Your father is the same way…all of these males must feel like they’re needed in some way no matter what it is. Now guys you aren’t related to in general like the ones you bump into at the club need to feel socailly accepted by you in someway in order to feel like a men; even if its just pulling a chair out for you or holding open a door or giving up his seat. This is a need that only a woman can fulfill. Men dont have the ability to cling to eachother for this type of support because basically we all have the same parts, same anatomy, same mind and same feelings so it doesn’t work for us.

See the average guy who goes to a club goes to pick up women but its not about the sex, he only thinks its about the sex. Its really about being and feeling in control, feeling valuable in someway and feeling wanted by women, its about building his ego. The typical guy is really insecure and might not have anything else to offer but his so to speak “meat stick,” though as a guy I hate that term because it makes me feel worthless. He thinks this is the way to feel appreciated or valued to you…now because you’re lesbian that makes things a little complicated for him. Basically as a lesbian there is really nothing he can do for you and deep down inside he knows that but the thought of being utterly useless to the female species, being worthless in every way feels kinda like having a mother give you up for adoption. At this point hes really insecure and hes thinking to himself “is there something wrong with me, i can’t please her, i dont have anything she wants, where do I fit!” Now I know what you might be saying, “why doesn’t he just move on to someone who will accept him whose straight?” Lol, its not about moving on with us….we absolutely, positively must feel like we have something to offer to every woman. Its stupid, I know because I’m  a man and I think its stupid but thats how we’re wired. I have to feel like my comments meant something. Have you ever had a guy in the club hit on you and you told him no thank you and he begged you to let him buy you a drink. The drink wasn’t to get you drunk, the drink is so he feels somewhat useful. He couldn’t win you over but at least he could buy you a drink and that makes him feel good……Lol for a half hour then comes the jealousy but thats just the ego, it will pass and he will move on.

LOl, now if you wont even let the poor boy buy you a drink…if hes weak minded he’ll probably turn into a stalker which is sad. Now as far as how can you make guys stop hitting on you, that is never going to go away. You’re a woman…there are certain biological and chemical things inside you that make you appealing to male’s senses…thats just nature and theres no stopping that unless you grow a dick, then in that case he’ll be turned off right away..probably after you show it to him but then he’d be traumatized for life.